Dating a young widower advice absurd developments in dating technology
by Dawgelene "Dr Dawj" Sangster- You meet this beautiful woman, strike up a conversation, love her energy and personality and decide you want to take her out.During the conversation she tells you she is a widow and you bypass that quickly because you want to get this lady on a romantic date and show her how great of a guy you are!When you finally connect with her, she tells you that she thinks you are wonderful but she needs time to regroup and maybe you are moving too fast.You are upset and don't understand why she just can't get into you. Before you get upset with the next widow you meet and want to date, please consider the following list on things to consider when you find out someone is a widow, and be sure to ASK more questions in the beginning.They wonder if their feelings or the situations that arise are normal. He hopes to caution women away from men who are clearly not ready for relationships or might be using their “grief” in a manipulative manner.In essence, his book is no different from the other dating books out there because the bad behavior men exhibit in relationships really is the same regardless of the label he wears. It isn’t fraught with tension, second-guessing and tears.Until I read Abel Keogh’s Widower Wednesday, I had no idea that dating a widower was such a widespread practice* that it required its own self-help dating niche.
Widowed hate the idea that new love is “healing” and I don’t disagree though only because I dislike the “healing” terminology.
It makes feeling sad because someone you loved has died seem not normal somehow.